Could we not DC?

I got the first Batman Eternal TPB and I didn't want to get anymore. I've had my problems with the characterizations and it made me want to avoid Barbara Gordon because I couldn't stand how she was written. Needless to say I'm not a fan of that series. I was hoping to have all that ignored completely and I was under the impression some of it would be forgotten. Especially the out of character bits and I definitely cringe when I see her interact with Jason. No, just no.